Play Hard To Get

Play Hard To Get

It’s an age-old fact that women play games when they’re dating. That’s not to say that men don’t play along, but women definitely have the underlying motives and reasons that we don’t quite possess when it comes to dating. Men know what they want, women see what they think they might like to maybe have at some point one day. It’s very confusing. As such you shouldn’t let this game with it’s ridiculous number of rules stop you from trying to date the hottie of your dreams. Just try to remember to pick-up on the rules as fast as you can and play along.

Hard to Get

The Dating Game

The Dating Game

The most common dating game is playing hard to get. Women do this because they want to know that they’re worth it to you. Worth the chase, worth the fight, worth the countless hours being frustrated at her. She’ll text you all day long and tell you how much she likes you only to hold back in person. Or vice versa. Whatever her angle is, it doesn’t match up with the others. She may be acting completely ambivalent towards you but has expressed some sort of interest. This act feels right to her because she’s getting the attention that she wants from you. What she’s not prepared for is for you to be un-phased by this. Every time she leaves you waiting for an hour or stands you up simply tell her that you ended up meeting up with some friends, or maybe even another woman, and had a good time anyway. She may become jealous of this, but let her be jealous. You don’t have the ability or desire to donate so much of yourself to a woman that can’t do the same.

Jealousy

Careful With Letting Jealousy Get Out Of Control

Careful With Letting Jealousy Get Out Of Control

Jealousy can be a huge motivator for a lot of guys to fight for their women. Ladies aren’t dumb, they know that. They think that if you get made enough at another guy for hitting on her or talking dirty to her then that means you really care. They aren’t mature enough to realize that every time they do something like that on purpose they’re only putting strain on whatever is going on. Don’t fall for this. Jealous women and men alike are scary creatures that make their partners vanish. They either push them away or keep them locked away. Truthfully she doesn’t want you to keep her from the public, even if she is acting like this. Take her aside and tell her that you really aren’t into her flirting with other guys or encouraging them to do the same. She may say that you’re making a bigger deal out of it than needs be, but if she does then just tell her that it’s not working. Obviously she’s not ready for a relationship with you at all.

Prove It

Prove You Are Serious

Prove You Are Serious

The worst thing to have to do is to jump through hoops for your dating prospect. Having to meet parents, go through complex situations to see her, or prove to her that you’re willing to be with her are all just about the least sensible ways to do that. This is just another way for her to prove to herself that you love her because you’re willing to do this for her. As a guy dating a woman we’re willing to do some pretty ridiculous stuff, but if you notice that she’s acting this way then you’re going to have to talk straight with her. There are errands you will run, but you are not a servant. Don’t give into her every whim when she calls you. You’re her partner and her friend, if you’re running to the store to buy tampons then you’re a damned good mix of those two things. She should realize that and cut down on the requests. If she doesn’t, then start getting familiar with the word “no” and use it when necessary.

Reward Your Crew For A Great Job Done

Reward Your Crew For A Great Job Done

Your restaurant will live and die at the satisfaction of your customers, and so it’s important for you to provide an excellent experience for your patrons from start to finish. While the quality of the product that your kitchen is producing is important, your waitstaff are on the front lines smiling through the good customers and the bad. You know that if your service starts to flag in quality, it will quickly be reflected in customer satisfaction. Therefore, isn’t it in your best interest as a business owner to keep your servers happy so that they’ll feel motivated to work hard for you? If you haven’t been doing this before, there’s never a better time to begin than the present. Consider the following methods you can use to make your waitstaff feel appreciated.

Reward Your Crew At the End of a Long Shift

Let’s not kid ourselves: it can be pretty rough to spend an eight hour shift dealing with customers who seem to have an endless parade of special requests, demands for free food, and an aversion to tipping well. It’s even worse if your scheduling is such that you have servers who are frequently working double shifts. If you’ve had some particularly hectic services lately, or if you just feel like your waitstaff deserves a break after a rough week of being slammed with tables constantly, consider supplying your restaurant crew with a reward at the end of the shift. Whether that means a fancy staff meal, free drinks from the bar, or some other gift that you’ve provided yourself, you’ll see a return on your investment almost immediately. Your servers will love that they feel like you appreciate their hard work, and they’ll remain dedicated to offering quality customer service in your name.

Be Vigilant About Thanking Them During Service

Make Your Staff Feel Appreciated

Make Your Staff Feel Appreciated

Don’t just throw your servers to the wolves when service starts and let them fend for themselves. Be an active manager and help them out with their duties while you’re juggling your own. Help fold napkins, bus tables, or even help deliver large orders to a table so a party’s food can arrive all at once. This has the added benefit of allowing your customers to see that you’re an active part of your team, and they’ll appreciate seeing that everyone is working in concert to create a great dining experience for them. Being an absentee manager who expects his servers to be able to handle every problem that gets thrown their way is not a good plan for running a successful business. Instead, demonstrate to your crew that you hold yourself to the same high standards you apply to them.

Offer the Ability to Earn Raises

Offer Higher Payments To Your Best Employees

Offer Higher Payments To Your Best Employees

There’s no getting around the fact that servers are chronically underpaid. While you might insist that they’re making plenty of money once you factor in their tips, the truth is that they might not even be working enough hours to pay their bills even if their tips are good. Create a system wherein your servers have actual opportunities for advancement. Encourage staff to stick around, and offer reviews of their performance every six months with the opportunity to earn a raise at the end of each period. Not only will this drastically reduce the amount of staff turnover you have, it will instill a sense of loyalty into your employees. You clearly value their work because you’re willing to put your money where your mouth is, and they’ll work harder for you as a result. Employees will be much more willing to work that double shift when they know it’s going to look good on their performance review several months down the road.

The Ultimate Buying Guide

The Ultimate Buying Guide

We live in a society that enjoys highlighting conspicuous consumption. How hard is it to resist wanting shiny new things when every pop star on every magazine cover is flashing jewelry or brandishing the latest fancy gadget? It can be difficult to keep your budget under control when you’re trying to figure out how to fit purchases of expensive items into it. You might even end up destroying your budget by trying to make it work around a big buy. Instead of endangering your financial stability, consider the benefits of purchasing less expensive alternatives to commonly desired but expensive products. They’re often just as good and offer just as much fun or functionality as their more expensive counterparts, and you’ll enjoy them even more knowing that you saved yourself money by buying them.

There Are Plenty of MP3 Players in the Sea

Just because iPods are the most popular MP3 players does not mean that they’re the only viable option out there. While personal music players have fallen by the wayside in recent years as smartphones have increasingly taken over that capacity, you might still be interested in a standalone player because of the extra storage and other features they offer. If that’s the case, do some comparison shopping online and in the store, and look for an MP3 player that has all the capabilities you need. A good option to check into includes SD memory card-based players, which allow you to expand the amount of storage they have as you need. There are many inexpensive players on the market now, and they are easily obtainable as well. It’s easy to afford being able to listen to your music whenever you want to.

New Computers Don’t Have to Be Expensive

Do Not Fall Into A Shopping Spree

Do Not Fall Into A Shopping Spree

It’s a myth that you have to pay a lot of money to get a computer that’s not going to fall apart after a few years. There are plenty of options available to you if you need to purchase a new machine and you’re on a tight budget. If there’s no other option available to you, consider selecting a pre-built computer from your local electronics store, although be aware of the extra software that such stores may add to your machine. Websites like Logical Increments, however, provide a blueprint guide for you to follow to build your own computer on everything from a maxed-out budget to a shoestring one. If you’re closer to the shoestring side, never fear: you can still build your own powerful machine without having to spend a ton of money.

Those Jeans Shouldn’t Cost Hundreds of Dollars

Do you really need to buy those designer jeans that cost several hundred dollars when you’re going to be wearing them out a lot? The answer is simple, and it is a resounding no. Instead of shelling out for the trendiest blue jeans, recognize the value in their original purpose as rugged work pants. Buy yourself a few pairs of less expensive jeans, care for them properly, and you’ll be able to stretch many years of life out of them. That designer pair might start fraying and tearing after only a few years of use, and then you’ll have to replace them. That money adds up quickly, and it’s a cost you shouldn’t be incurring when there are cheaper alternatives which are just as good. As a bonus, you are more at liberty to experiment with changing the look of cheap jeans than you are with expensive ones; if you want a home-made faded look, it’s as easy to achieve as making your own “ripped” pair of jeans. Why pay hundreds of dollars for something you could do with only a few and an afternoon of your time?

Can You Really Appreciate Expensive Wine?

Rethink Your Spending Habits

Rethink Your Spending Habits

Media sometimes portrays wine as an expensive luxury that only the rich can afford to truly indulge in, while other consumers are left with the substandard products that are sold in grocery stores. Is it really substandard, though? The truth is, you don’t need to spend a hundred or even fifty dollars on a bottle of wine in order to be able to enjoy “good” wine. There are plenty of wine guides available both online and in liquor stores that catalog all of the different bottles available and how professional sommeliers have graded their taste and quality. Use these guides to find inexpensive wines that still pack premium flavor, and stop throwing your money away on expensive bottles that taste the same to you anyway.

Choose An Email Service That Works For You

Choose An Email Service That Works For You

Picking what email service to use is probably not something that you spend a whole lot of time thinking about, but it can really make a difference in the experience you have with emailing. There are some services that offer better features and storage options than others, and on the other hand, there are email services that offer better spam protection. There are tons of things you need to keep in mind when you’re trying to pick an email service. It’s not always an easy decision to make, especially if you’re not convinced that you really need to worry about this. You may just want to go for the first one that you come across. However, there are some things you need to consider before you make a decision about what email service to use. If you’re not convinced that this is actually something you should be worried about, here’s what you need to know:

Why Does This Matter?

You've got An Email

You’ve got An Email

What email service you pick can actually be quite a big deal. There are so many of them out there on the Internet nowadays that you may just be tempted to go for one of the most popular ones and stick to that. Sometimes this is fine, but there are still things that need to be taken into consideration. What email account you send your mail from can actually say a lot about you, and you don’t want to give people the wrong impression because of what email service you signed up for when you were a teenager. There’s a lot to be said for picking the right email service to give off a professional image, even if you’re just sending mail to friends. It’s an important thing that most people don’t even consider nowadays, but it does make a difference.

Finding the Best Service for Your Needs

Gmail Is One Of The Most Popular Email Services

Gmail Is One Of The Most Popular Email Services

There are so many email services out there that it can be a bit overwhelming trying to pick one. You may be tempted to go for Yahoo’s mail service or something similar, but think about it first. Yahoo emails don’t look particularly impressive or professional, and it can actually make you look a bit amateurish. Gmail is one of the most popular email services nowadays for a reason. It’s sleek and professional while still being easy to navigate for basically anyone. It also offers tons of options and services, so there’s pretty much no going wrong with this decision. Still, you may want to pick something else based on what you need. Some services offer bigger attachment sizes and better spam protection. It’s all based on what you need to get out of the service, so consider it carefully and make a decision based on that. You may even want to make your own email service if needed, since having your own domain can really do wonders for professionalism. You may have to spend a little money to do so, but you’ll likely enjoy it more in the end since it can really improve your image when you’re applying for jobs and corresponding with coworkers and the like.

Using Multiple Services

Consolidate Multiple Email Addresses

Consolidate Multiple Email Addresses

If you’re not sure what email service is best for you, then you may want to use more than one at a time. This can be beneficial because it can allow you to keep your different lives separate. You can have personal emails on a less-professional email service, and keep all of your business emails to your business email service. It’s a good way to establish your image and make sure you don’t accidentally copy your boss onto an email about cute cat pictures that you were trying to send to your friends. There’s nothing wrong with using multiple email services if that’s what will work out best for you. If you want to use a dummy account to sign up for sites that you don’t care about, it can be a great way to separate important emails from junk emails, too.

Weight Loss Apps Are Very Popular

Weight Loss Apps

There are a lot of weight loss apps out there. Instead of seeing technology as something that makes life easier (and thus makes it simpler to just lie around and be lazy) more and more people are seeing their smartphones and tablets as another tool to help them on their quest for health and happiness. With all the weight loss apps on the market it can be hard to pick the one that’s best for you. Take a look at the top two contenders and then see what makes a really good app stand out from the pack.

MyFitnessPal

Loose Weight With MyFitnessPal's Free Calorie Counter

Loose Weight With MyFitnessPal’s Free Calorie Counter

This free app is most notable for its list of foods. This app has over 500,000 foods in its database. Users can add and cross verify each other’s submissions, so that common foods can have agreed upon calorie counts. Information from many different fast food and restaurant chains can be found within, so that even when you eat out you might be able to add in your calories with a few taps of a button and a simple search. This is the most unique feature of the app, but this does take a pretty over all approach to weight loss. Just feed in your height, weight, activity level, and how quickly you want to lose weight (up to 2 pounds per week, which is the highest recommended rate by doctors). The app calculates your food budget. Stick within these limits (in general; after all, no app is perfect) and you should start seeing the weight loss you crave.

You can also track your exercise to gain extra calories to spend on food. This app will add the calories you burn to that day’s number of calories you can choose to consume.

Lose It!

This app costs you. It’s not the most expensive, with a membership to the website being $40 a year, but it is an investment. Some people respond better when they have to spend money. They’d rather make the effort to stay within their calorie budget and actually lose weight than waste $40. If that’s you, then by all means go ahead. This app does everything that MyFitnessPal does, but also offers some premium features the other doesn’t. Most conveniently, Lose It! has a barcode scanner that will read the calorie information for you. You don’t have to manually type in anything anymore.

There Are Dozens of Apps out There

Of course, there are dozens of apps out there that all function along the same lines. What makes one better than the others? Some have interfaces that speak to different people. Some offer more charts, some do nutritional analysis and some will tell you your projected weight loss if you can just stick to your diet. If neither of these options appeal to you that doesn’t mean that there’s no digital help for you. You can always look into an up and coming app. If you’re an early adopter you can even recommend the next big things to your friends and be the first person in your social media feed to get thin using the latest and greatest weight loss app.

Figure out If You’re about Calories or Exercise

Lose Weight In A Healthy, Sustainable Way

Lose Weight In A Healthy, Sustainable Way

Lose Weight In A Healthy, Sustainable WayWhen you’re looking into apps to help you lose weight you should consider what you’re really going to be doing. If you just plan to work out more and gradually lose weight that way, you should get an app that’s geared towards promoting exercise. Keep track of the miles you run and pounds you lift and watch the inches melt away. If you’re more about calorie control, then you want a food diary that you can keep in your pocket wherever you go. That will let you budget out your calories so that you can indulge in that birthday cupcake at the office party.

Popularity Is Important

Of course, no matter what your personal style you should still look into what the people around you have. Losing weight is easier when you have the support of your friends and family. If everyone you know is using a certain app it’s probably worth it to use it too. You want to be able to talk about it with them, keep tabs on each other, and encourage each other’s progress. Even if another app has a really cool interface you’ll get better results with the app that allows you to connect to a support group.